When my dad passed away when I was 13 
Also when I turned 21 on my birthday my moms boyfriend at the time was beating her up and I tried to get him off her he wound up beating us both with a hammer and then had me put in jail after I got out of jail and had to go back to live with him and mom I then tried to cut my wrists n kill myself but thank God the knife was too dull and my mom stopped me just in time. But weirdly then she turned around and cut her own wrist with that same knife and did a better job than I did. Best bday ever huh